Day 16

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"You have to focus on being the best you – because that is all you have."

Homework:

♥ Change your attitude towards jealousy.

Think of three incidents where you have felt jealous, or imagine three where you could potentially feel very jealous.

• Why would you feel that way?
• What, specifically, is it they have that you want?
• Why don’t you have it?
• Can you help that?

Now, use that jealous feeling as a tool rather than an obstacle, exploit it rather than letting it weigh down and depress you. Change your thoughts to proactive ones, ask yourself:

• How can you have what they have too?
• Or, how can you change your feelings about it to elevate yourself in spirits, regardless of whether you possess it or not?
• Can you shift your focus to another, more suitable, more attainable goal?
• Is that really what you want, or do you have higher aspirations?

Quite honestly, I don't think I'm ready to share with blogging world my petty jealousies. A lot of things I'm jealous of in people are so pointless. (That girl is prettier than I am!! The NERVE.) However, there are SOME jealous things I would rather keep to myself thankyouverymuch. I'll write them down somewhere you all can't read them and make fun of me. :)